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Thursday, September 22, 2011

SOCIAL TRAITS OF THE ZERO PERSONALITY (2)

By Ayo Emakhiomhe.

PRIDE
This trait is very obvious from the description of the zero given in the last blog post. As life is its slave it will be very proud and demanding, not concerned in any way about other people’s feelings and passions.
With a very strong sense of pride, a zero would rather die than to apologise for a fault; a zero would rather go to the grave than to make amends with anyone tagged as the enemy even if the opportunity arises and its life depends on it.
Along the same path, a zero would rather die than to beg for anything. The pride factor leads to a long string of broken and wounded relationships, poor followership and fundamentalist character traits.
The pride factor also makes an otherwise warm fellow seem snobbish and unapproachable.
This goes on continually in the life of the zero till it dies lonely, rejected and dejected by even those otherwise close to it.
This same pride is what makes the zero pessimistic and disloyal suspecting every move and looking for only ways of showing you how much better they are than yourself; makes every effort to show you that no matter how good you seem to have become at anything, you are no better than being under their feet.
I therefore ask you to check yourself and let me know how much of a proud zero you are.


Sunday, September 18, 2011

THE SOCIAL TRAITS OF THE ZERO PERSONALITY (1)

Man is a social animal. Man craves to 'belong' to a group or be accepted by another group. This craving has driven people to the points of being indoctrinated with beliefs that otherwise do more harm than good.
Today, we are looking at how a zero personality acts in its course to socialise, in its desire to be accepted.
We will start with the first social trait of the zero personality and cover all the others in subsequent posts.
Happy reading.

The first trait is that a zero is the modern day aristocrat to the extreme. It Believes that life and everyone in it owes him/her a lot. A zero would go to great lenghts to ensure that this debt is collected in terms of allegiances created or controlling behaviors displayed. It would always give favours to collect back soonest in more than a hundred percent and probably call in favours to perpetuate evil or support it.
 It sees life as a place where it is the lord and master and all else should bow to it, it sees no reason to give back to life or in the extreme; it sees no reason to share life with anyone else.
A zero would complain about everything except itself, something must be blamed for every bad thing that happens to it; it usually adduces this to the fact that there are forces ofter it who are out to ensure that it does not succeed in life and sometimes use that as an excuse not to even attempt at any venture but become laid back and pessimistic and support others in not achieving their dreams.

based on the foregoing, ARE YOU A ZERO?


more by next post.
By Ayo Emakhiomhe

Saturday, March 5, 2011

BUSINESS TRAITS OF THE ZERO PERSONALITY

By Ayo Emakhiomhe.
So far, we have defined the zero personality and started out listing the business traits of this personality.
We have been able to outline and discuss five of them namely:
1. Wants immediate gratification. An example of the is the story of the Prodigal son as related in the Holy bible (the book of Luke chapter 15 verses 11 to 21)
2. Cannot stand competition. An example here is the story of Microsoft in their antitrust case for which Bill gates almost lost his company if he had not surrendered leadership. And note that by diffusing leadership he ceased being the all in all and humbled himself and ceased being a zero due to the anti competitive personality he had initially displayed.
3. Lacks integrity. Any person that cannot give his/her word and stand by it displays this trait, especially when factors that would have prevented the fulfillment of such a promise are within the person’s control.
4. Zero risk appetite.  This happens to us at one time or the other in our lives. Everyone is a coward, the hero is the one that now takes a step, another and every other step necessary to reach, face and conquer his/her fear. Fear is an imagination of the mind that we bring to reality and exists for as long as we allow it to.
5. Very myopic/lacks planning. A good example here is some of the governments and politicians we have had in Nigeria.

By the next post we will be looking at the social traits of the zero personality.

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Thursday, February 10, 2011

BUSINESS TRAITS OF THE ZERO PERSONALITY (CONT'D)



we continue with our discourse on the business personality of the Zero person. this has been our discourse in the last 3 posts.
You can always read previous posts from our archives. All contributions are welcomed. happy reading.        
Ayo Emakhiomhe.

Our talk today will be on the MYOPIC business outlook of the zero personality
A zero lives life as if it would end by end of day today. That is, if you ask a zero to plan 5years, 10years, or worse still, 20 years down the line, it’s a journey in futility.
A zero’s business plan is at most short term; a week, a day, a month, a few months tops. But the true successful business person can tell you where his/her business will be in the next five years time all things being equal or alternative plans in case things do not go according to plan, all in a bid to achieve success in five years or ten years time or more.

we continue by next post.
 

Thursday, February 3, 2011

BUSINESS TRAITS OF THE ZERO PERSONALITY (CON'TD)


By Emakhiomhe Ayo 

    Zero risk appetite.

If you tell a zero personality that there is a risk involved in any action, that zero would not be involved in such an action.
But what guarantee do we have that when we sleep at night or when we doze off during the day we will wake up again, it is a risk we take to sleep as basic as it is, therefore it is by faith that we sleep to wake up, therefore we should act by such faith especially if we have good and reliable information on such action.
A zero would not only on its own take no risks, it would not encourage all those around it to take any risk in any form and could even go to the extent of creating an environment of fear and lack of initiative.

We should always remember the business rule that says the more the risk, the more the returns. We should learn to take calculated risks.
A child takes a risk by trying to walk/crawl but without taking that risk, the child will not grow.
When I say risk here I mean calculated/informed risk. I am not saying that you should take a risk and go rob a bank or jump off a cliff. What I am saying is if you have a million dollar business plan in your hand for example, your bank comes across it, studies it and decides that its good enough to put their money in it, you say no because bank credit is too risky, but you have no job or means of livelihood, you say “I will survive, I will not have a bank watch my business”.
 This project might have been packaged in such a way that the bank takes all the risk and you lose nothing but your time if you go into it and gain experience if it crashes, but, with the risk factor of your bank financing, you totally back out until someone else comes along with same idea and is financed by same bank and starts flowing with money that would have been yours and you get pained.

............more by next post. your comments/contributions are welcomed.

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Saturday, January 15, 2011

BUSINESS TRAITS OF THE ZERO PERSONALITY II


The Zero personality Lacks integrity.
Integrity is being true to oneself at all times. More like doing the right thing even when no one is there to see you do it or if no one will ever know if what you did was right or not and you still go ahead and do the right thing.
A zero would tell you what it feels you want to hear even when it knows that that information is incorrect or distorted or that such information could destroy you probably because you cannot manage such information.
An example was a financial institution I used to work with a little while back. The information I gathered was that sometime back then the managing director did not realize that the employees were not satisfied with their salaries; the story then was that whenever he asked his management staff if the pay was good they would tell him that it was the best in the industry and he did not bother to double check. This went on for a while until staff turnover was hitting the roof and key management staffs were now resigning. But the bubble burst when he confronted a management staff who had just resigned and in all he said, it was like ‘why have you decided to stab me in the back after all the great things I have done for you’ This employee now could not control herself and just said all sorts to him in a rage to the point of how sickening his company’s pay was and this was at a management meeting. This was when he went to double check and found out that indeed his pay compared to the industry average was appalling and took immediate steps to rectify and pacify the situation which led to a good drop in staff turnover and other management staff not moving on.
In the story above, one would say that he should swipe the management for lying to him but we need to look at both sides of the coin before deciding on this because like many CEO’s, are you sure he encourages people telling him the true situation of things?
Some CEO’S actually do not know when they start doing this especially when success starts becoming their middle name, but they should watch it because this is a behavior of a zero personality which as we just saw would have led to the demise of a great company.
But coming back to our topic, because of the zeros that formed the management of that company, they did not tell the CEO the truth with respect to the poor salary for which reason the company had lost key staff and would have gone under.
This brings to fore a key question - As a CEO, what kind of managers do you have? What kind of a leader are you?
 more by next posts.
LEADERSHIP NUGGETS with Oluwaseun Osibo

COMFORT ZONE SYNDROME
There was once a king, who received a gift of two magnificent falcons from Arabia. They were peregrine falcons, the most beautiful birds he had ever seen. He gave the precious birds to his head falconer to be trained. Months passed and one day the head falconer informed the king that though one of the falcons was flying majestically, soaring high in the sky, the other bird had not moved from its branch, since the day it had arrived. The king summoned healers from all the land to tend to the falcon, but no one could make the bird fly. He presented the task to a member of his court, but the next day, the king saw through the palace window that the bird had still not moved from its perch. Having tried everything else, the king thought to himself, "May be I need someone more familiar with the countryside to understand the nature of this problem." So he cried out to his court, "Go and get a farmer." In the morning, the king was thrilled to see the falcon soaring high above the palace gardens. He said to his court, "Bring me the doer of this miracle." The court quickly located the farmer, who came and stood before the king. The king asked him, "How did you make the falcon fly?" With his head bowed, the farmer said to the king, " It was very easy, your highness. I simply cut the branch, where the bird was sitting."
 
Nugget

We were all made to fly but we need to realize this incredible potential as human beings. We cannot afford to sit on our branches, clinging to the familiar things in our lives. The possibilities of this world are endless, but for most people, these remain undiscovered. When we conform to the familiar, the comfortable and the mundane, we miss out on God's best for our lives and settle for mediocrity, instead of an exciting, thrilling and fulfilling life. This week, we must learn to destroy the branch of fear and the other things we cling to so as to free ourselves to the glory of flight. The best days are still ahead of you. God always has His best in mind for you only if you can acknowledge and take advantage of them through the principle of recognition. Your gifts will surely make room for you as you cash in on your windows of opportunities in 2011!

Thursday, January 6, 2011

BUSINESS TRAITS OF THE ZERO PERSONALITY II


By Ayo Emakhiomhe

Cannot stand competition.
The need for immediate gratification makes it difficult for the zero to stand competition. We might be smiling reading this because one of the rules we were thought was to crush the competition. But what we should realize is that without competition our creative best will not come out, also without competition our customers will not see our strengths (and our weaknesses), every minus for the competition should be a plus for us.
Without competition there would not be a need for advertising, research and development or even new products/services.
But a salient issue here is that a zero sees even suggestions from subordinates and positive comments by superiors as competition and always finds ways to crush such which now leads to counterproductive behavior. Anyone that cannot take suggestions on proper organizational flow or takes positive comments from superiors as affronts is only counting time before disaster occurs.

more next post.